I have been in a stable relationship for 2 years and I really love my boyfriend who is a very caring guy and the last two years have been full of happiness. Recently, he proposed to me and I said yes. But since then, I have been feeling like I gave the answer too soon as there are some unresolved issues which are confusing me.
The thing is that I still have feelings for my ex who broke up with me 4 years ago. I thought that I was over him but 6 months ago I accidently ran into him at a mutual friendâ€™s wedding. We got to talking and all the feeling I thought had gone away, came rushing back. Since then we have been in touch and have even met for coffee twice. The more I talk to him, the more I feel that I love him. But then when I think about the way he broke up with me and left without any explanation, I think I am being a fool. He says he couldnâ€™t get intouch because he had to leave the city in a hurry.
I have been thinking a lot and somehow I cannot convince myself that it I should stay away from my ex. I have not shared my feelings with my current boyfriend as I am sure he will not understand what I am going through. I am thinking of postponing my engagement party scheduled for next week so that I can have some more time to think about it. I love my fiancĂ©e but not the way I loved my ex. Is there any way to find out which feelings are true? I really need to decide soon or I might end up losing both.
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